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Coming out of the closet.... over and over again.

From growing up in a small farm town to working with Wall Street’s elite, Cory Calvin’s candid memoir recounts a life of struggle and success and the moment he came to realize his true dreams were still hidden beneath the surface.

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Self-Discovery


Do you at times wonder who you are as a person? Or feel lost in life? Or feel stuck? Cory tried to figure out who he was and went through a long and arduous journey. Until one day Cory found the courage to leave it all behind, and traveled solo around the world, discovering his true self along the way and redefining his dreams.


Finding Purpose


Are you living the life you expected? Or is there a burning passion deep inside of you to live your dreams? At each point in Cory’s career, he struggled to understand his purpose. Cory always felt that he was so close to being who he should have been. That he had almost become himself.


Hiding your identity


Do you feel like you wear a mask at work? Or even in your personal life? Are you hiding your true self from other people? Cory creatively lied to hide his sexual identity throughout his difficult childhood in a small, rural farm town. Becoming Homecoming King and Student Government President at his university before climbing the corporate ladder, no one knew his secret.


Coming Out


Are you struggling to come out to yourself? Or maybe you are trying to come out at work? There are many closets to come out of. Cory shares how he felt the religious and societal guilt as he tried to come to grips with his sexual identity. And even the pressure to come out at work. While he thought he came out of all the closets, he still uncovers more.


Surviving Bullying


Have you ever been bullied? Or is a loved one being bullied? Cory explains how he was bullied in his small town as he struggled to figure himself out. He realized he was different than his peers at an early age. Cory explains how he was able to overcome the hardships he endured.


Unhealthy Relationships


Are you in an unhealthy relationship? And you realize that you should leave but know how hard it would be so you decide to stay? Ending unhealthy relationships was one of the hardest things Cory has ever had to go through. Cory longed for his father to accept his sexuality and took him years to cope with his father’s ultimate beliefs. At the same time, after finding his boyfriend through an online classified ad, Cory stayed too long in the relationship. And as time passed, he lost his self-confidence.

What Readers Are Saying

Wow! I Almost Became Me is a true gem and a must read. It captures one man’s desire to become who he was destined to be. Cory Calvin’s message is strong, brave and inspirational. I admire his ability to find his passion in life and to live his truth! Cory’s writing style is that of an “old soul”. A comfortable and confident wise friend. It is truly a captivating story. I loved taking the Journey with him. Cory’s positive energy leaves me hungry for more!

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Debi H

St. Pete Beach, Florida, USA

This is an absolute must read for everyone, not just individuals that identify as LGBT. This is an honest, heart felt recollection of a man that struggled to become who he was always meant to be. It’s easy to pass judgement on our peers. But this memoir reminds us to be kind to one another, you never know what sort of intellectual, internal war another person is waging against themselves.

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TJ

Richmond, VA

An important addition to the LGBT+ genre, this book should be required reading for anyone who desires to have a deeper understanding of what it is like to discover their true identity despite the risk of not being accepted. Cory paints an authentic, sometimes dark, picture of this universal struggle, yet leaves the reader feeling empowered by his delicate optimism throughout. I hope this will inspire more stories from the LGBT+ community and help all people realize that they are not alone.

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Melissa

Norman, OK

The best autobiographies move us, educate us, and make us cry and laugh— sometimes all of these things at once! This memoir certainly does all of this. It is one of the best memoirs I have ever read, since it keeps you busy and inspired throughout the book. It makes you pause but not stop and reflect about your own life, identify parallel situation culminating in an relentless hunger to find out what eventually happened to the Author.

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Raf

New York, NY

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About Author

Cory Calvin


I was a corporate finance and strategy executive with Fortune 500 companies for over 16 years before leaving my job in to travel the world nonstop. I finally listened to my gut and realized that I was not living the life that I had wanted to live. While traveling to all seven continents, I discovered my higher purpose in life: to inspire other people to become their best self.

My mission is to inspire one million people in the world by the time I reach the age of 50 (I just started at 40). Check out my personal website www.corycalvin.com to see how I am doing. And if I have inspired you, be sure to add yourself to my ongoing inspiration counter.

I now lead a location independent lifestyle. In ten months I completed my first book “I Almost Became Me: A Memoir” and I launched Pivot Trip, a transformational travel company, in May 2019 to inspire others to follow their passions in life.

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